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[Virus]

Things can be tough, harsh, unfair, and just plan "evil".
Just remember this life lesson.
Life lesson number 1: Life is unfair.
Just think about it. Life has been a total bullcrap. A brick that hit the wall with a exposing, exploding cannon. You just can't fix the smashed up wall, but one thing for sure is that, I NEVER want to see someone broken, and what I'm exactly going to do. Is keep patching you back up again. All cheerful with smiles and I am seriously telling the truth, when I say this. I will never let you down, and I will fall with you.
My logic is 20 times more knowledgeable when it comes to me solving a problem. I understand feelings very well.
I was born for a reason, and so were you. We live to die. We live to love, to care, to share, to bring peace, to make a difference, to save a life, and to die. We live to be there for each other.
I don't care if your bi-sexual, homosexual, gay, lesbian, straight, emo, etc. We all are the same, we all have feelings, and we all are one.
Some people just don't get how other people can be near bi, homosexual, gay, lesbian, even straight, and emo people. They even make fun of them, torture them, make life to them a living hell, and disrespect them for who they are.
If you are one of these people, you better read this, because I bet, if you were them and they were you. You won't think it's pretty.
Don't judge people for who they are.
Reasons:
1. They have feelings like you do. If you got beat up each day and got called a fag just being who you are, would you like it? No. Oh and don't tell me "oh, I don't care, I can beat that dude up in a second" just no. You are you right now, but if you were that beat up person, your going to be scared as hell seeing someone "2 times" your size and strength, beating you up.
2. Oh "You're a stupid gay person, you don't deserve to live. Your disgusting" ..I mean, are you serious. Why are you making fun of someone for loving differently. Seriously, you better check yourself before going outside doing that to people because, ha, those people who were made fun of, is gonna go right back at you. Your straight and that "kid" is gay, your going to serious make that "kids" life like a living hell by judging him for loving differently. Yeah. Your straight, yet, that kid has some insults to point right back at you, and I have some in-mind myself. Here are some: "I bet you make fun of everyone, it makes sense why you don't have many friends. Your a straight plain useless minded person who only goes one way. You have a problem for loving differently, then you have a problem on finding girls. Which kind of girl will take you as their boyfriend if you judge and make fun of so much."

(This is originally from GoldWolfG from Impressive Cats.)

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I<3U Virus

This helps me ALOT, because I'm bi and emo, but do I care about others opinion? Hell no. I only care about what I think of me. Tell the one who is hurting you to go look in a mirror. It shuts them up around my parts. Thank you so much virus! This helps me so much I cried

[DarkDeityofDespair]

This is definitely going to help people. People shouldn't be hurting others...it's just mean. I'll admit that a few months ago, I would have let my wall crumble, because I didn't care what really happened to me anymore...but with the help of friends, I helped stitch myself back together again.

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That's good. I made sure I got the perfect friends and they hold me up when I trip.
My wall tightened and got stronger. It takes alot to anger me or make me feel sorry for myself.

[Deleted]

This made me feel better, as I am going through some issues at school.
Not only do I have problems with bullying, but I have some friend issues too...
...I don't have very many friends, but that's okay, because A: I don't want to be popular/have tons of friends or anything and B: It's better to have very few close friends than many uncaring friends.
But the thing is, we are all moving schools next year. I have 3 close friends. One of them is going to to a different school than the others, so I won't really get to see her anymore unless we get the same classes at our college training place. (We go to our school half the day and the college place the other half.) The one I stay with most often will be at the same school as me, but she always talks about how she can't wait to find new friends.... same with the third friend. I kind of feel like I'm on my own, that everyone is going to be able to move on while I'm stuck here.
I kind of thought about it more since I just got back from visiting my future school. Lately I've been more depressed than usual... I guess I don't feel accepted anywhere.
I'm not really going to get into the bullying part of my life.

Meh sorry for talking about this, I just kind of needed to say it since I don't have anyone else to talk to.

[Deleted]

Man... I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND!!! That is pretty much what happened to me at my old school, but I moved and left the bullies behind (who hated me because I was on principle's list every year. Principle's list means: straight A's all year round)

I always felt like I wanted to cry, but I just ignored them and did my best to be happy to everyone and to not let my anger show(Which is my problem now. I can't really hold it back, so if I don't like you, I'll let you know straight up, bros)

But that really hurts me to see someone like Zero to be left out and lonely. It makes me feel/picture myself in their shoes and it hurts.

So zero...

LET ME LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

[Deleted]

Thank you.
But the thing is, I don't know how I could ever love myself.
(Oh Gawd depression rant time)

I think I focus to much on what others think of me. I try to be my own person, but I think the reason why I have different personalities around people is because I try to please everyone. I really don't know how to stop and worse I'm not sure which personality is the real one, you know?
Almost every night I sit here and think about all my flaws. I find myself judgemental and spiteful, and I guess you can say I'm in my own little world.
One of the only things that makes me happy is music. I usually fall asleep to Skillet or Three Days Grace, but I like to perform even more.
I play Bass Clarinet, Bb Clarinet, and the Cello. I don't mean to brag, but I think I'm really good. Playing music helps me feel like I'm actually good at something, and allows me to be in my world and think about things while expressing them with sound.
(Why am I talking about my life so much ;-

[Kaoru]

Jan 10, 2013 23:10:57 GMT -5 zero said:

Thank you.
But the thing is, I don't know how I could ever love myself.
(Oh Gawd depression rant time)

I think I focus to much on what others think of me. I try to be my own person, but I think the reason why I have different personalities around people is because I try to please everyone. I really don't know how to stop and worse I'm not sure which personality is the real one, you know?
Almost every night I sit here and think about all my flaws. I find myself judgemental and spiteful, and I guess you can say I'm in my own little world.
One of the only things that makes me happy is music. I usually fall asleep to Skillet or Three Days Grace, but I like to perform even more.
I play Bass Clarinet, Bb Clarinet, and the Cello. I don't mean to brag, but I think I'm really good. Playing music helps me feel like I'm actually good at something, and allows me to be in my world and think about things while expressing them with sound.
(Why am I talking about my life so much ;-

Your main problem is that you DO focus on what others think of you. My father told me not to care what they think and to just care what I think of myself. Don't always try to please everyone, just try to your best ability to do as much as you can. To stop yourself from all of this is to maybe get some counseling, or talk to someone, anyone that you feel you can speak and say everything to.

If your judgemental and spiteful, just ask yourself, "Why do I think that? Why have I decided to judge this or that?"

Also, I love Skillet and Three Days Grace. Music helps with many problems and calms the mind. Rock music usually helps let pent up anger out and calm music helps you calm down with any emotions that are "overflowing."

You can always talk to me. (Yes, I have had life changing affects now because of my new class that teaches you to get to know others and more about yourself)

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Talking about Helps you feel ALOT better around others and yourself. Gawsh, you make me want ot just find where you live and be by your side foreves, you get me?

I absolutely HATE when people feel like this. It just makes me want to find the people that said this about them and tell them how sons-of..... They are. But it is not my place to solve others problems, but if you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to, just fly on by and I'll help you. But beware I am VERY HONEST when it comes to telling the truth about your feelings.

Do not think of what others think of you. Try to think what YOU think of yourself. It helps me and will help you, too. Trust me, I didn't act like this, all out going and shiz, till I learned to forget and let live. Don't necessarily forgive too much, but what YOU want to do with YOUR life is no concern of others.

<33 youuu

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Jan 11, 2013 9:25:45 GMT -5 Kaoru said:

Your main problem is that you DO focus on what others think of you. My father told me not to care what they think and to just care what I think of myself. Don't always try to please everyone, just try to your best ability to do as much as you can. To stop yourself from all of this is to maybe get some counseling, or talk to someone, anyone that you feel you can speak and say everything to.

If your judgemental and spiteful, just ask yourself, "Why do I think that? Why have I decided to judge this or that?"

Jan 11, 2013 9:30:11 GMT -5 @knockout said:

Do not think of what others think of you. Try to think what YOU think of yourself. It helps me and will help you, too. Trust me, I didn't act like this, all out going and shiz, till I learned to forget and let live. Don't necessarily forgive too much, but what YOU want to do with YOUR life is no concern of others.

<33 youuu

Thank you for this.
I try to stop thinking more of others opinions, but it's really hard. I guess I've done it all my life, and I can't really stop myself.
It's kind of the same thing with judging others. I really don't like admitting this, but I do judge people and it's also hard to stop. I never say anything out loud, but it is a form of bullying in a way... I probably do it to make myself feel better about me.
I know I have problems and I do think I need a little help, but I don't want to talk to my parents about this. They really don't understand me...
I try hard to be happy throughout the day, and I think I'm getting a little better, even though I still have a ways to go, and with next school year coming.

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Well, I hope your life gets better and I'm here for ya buddeh.